Life With A Side Of Autism

LIFE WITH A SIDE OF AUTISM

Thursday, May 14, 2015

A Tale Of Two Papers, Or Special Needs, Served Two Special Ways


This is a tale of two papers, pulled from two different pockets, right before throwing laundry into the machine.

On the left, we see a paper from David's pocket - obviously his form of doodling. He's essentially copied the menu options from several of his favorite Harry Potter DVD's, detailing out the Warner Brother's logo, the titles, etc. 

The whole page was covered in this. Front and back. Only instead of "Harry Potter," all the titles had "David Potter" in them instead. Because that's his biggest dream - to live in the movies he so loves to watch.

On the right is the paper from Anna's pocket - and looking at it (also detailed front and back), I assumed it was homework. It's not, or so she informs me. Just stuff about string theory and astrophysics that she found really interesting after doing some research on the internet. At home, in her free time.

And it reminded me of something I seem to forget too much. I have two "special education" students in my house. Because in my state, at least, a student who is tested and subsequently categorized as "gifted" is entitled to their own special education plan, one that meets their needs and challenges them appropriately.

It's for this reason that my daughter has been receiving extra math and language assignments since the third grade. It's for this reason that they're allowing her to do away with most of her electives next year - her freshman year of high school - in order to allow her to double up on her honors-level core classes. It's for this reason that they're allowing her to skip over Algebra 1 and Spanish 1 and go right to level two on both, based on her middle school aptitude in both subjects. 

I'm not telling you all this to crow about how smart my kid is.

Okay, maybe I am, a little. But there's a bigger and more important lesson here. Pulling those papers out yesterday just illustrated to me so perfectly these two minds, and how differently they work. And they're both attached to kids who have incredible potential, vivid imagination, and intrinsic, unquestionable value. 

Most of all, they belong to two kids who are kind, and compassionate, and decent human beings. That much they share and there is no difference between them in how they share it.

They look at the world in two different ways.

And I look at them and see the same thing: endless possibilities.


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Ellie's journey with her son David has been one of joy, patience and discovery - one that changed the very framework in which she used to view autism. Through David's eyes, she's learned that an autism diagnosis isn't the end of the world - it's just the beginning of an interesting new one.
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